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Thinking pattern

Draft — not clinically reviewed yet

Mind reading

Assuming you know what others think — usually something negative — without evidence.

Source: Sokol & Fox (2019), The Comprehensive Clinician's Guide to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

For learning and reflection — not diagnosis or treatment. Willow isn't your therapist or crisis line. Based on Sokol & Fox (2019). In crisis? See crisis resources or findahelpline.com.

For learning only — not a treatment plan. For exposure, trauma, or medication questions, work with a clinician.

The pattern

Mind reading = treating assumptions about others' thoughts as facts:

  • "They think I'm incompetent."
  • "Everyone noticed I was awkward."

Examine with evidence

  • What did they actually say or do?
  • What are other explanations for their behavior?
  • Have you ever been wrong about what someone thought before?
  • Would you need to ask to know — and is asking safe/possible?

Social anxiety link

Common in anxiety before or after social situations. Pair with Socratic questioning.

Try it next

Describe one interaction where you "know" what they thought — Willow will separate data from inference.

From the guide

  • She thinks I'm boring — mind reading treats a guess as a fact.

    — Thinking errors list; Sokol & Fox (2019), The Comprehensive Clinician's Guide to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

From the guide

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