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Anxiety

How anxious worry shows up in thoughts and body, and which cognitive behavioral therapy skills help you examine predictions without avoiding life.

Source: Sokol & Fox (2019), The Comprehensive Clinician's Guide to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

For learning and reflection — not diagnosis or treatment. Willow isn't your therapist or crisis line. Based on Sokol & Fox (2019). In crisis? See crisis resources or findahelpline.com.

For learning only — not a treatment plan. For exposure, trauma, or medication questions, work with a clinician.

When anxiety is the main concern

Anxiety is not just feeling keyed up — it is usually a prediction problem. Your mind forecasts danger, your body responds as if the forecast were already true, and you may start avoiding situations that could disconfirm the fear.

Common patterns include:

  • Probability error — "This will definitely go badly" when the realistic odds are lower.
  • Catastrophic error — "If it goes wrong, I won't recover" when you have coped before.
  • Resource error — "I can't handle it" when you have skills, people, or past evidence you are ignoring.

cognitive behavioral therapy does not ask you to pretend you feel calm. It helps you test the thoughts driving the alarm and choose responses that match reality more closely.

What helps (techniques)

Thought record for a specific anxious moment

Pick one recent situation — a meeting, message, bodily sensation, or "what if" spiral. Walk through situation → body → automatic thought → emotion (0–10) → evidence → a more accurate read → one small action. See the full thought record guide.

Probability and coping questions

Useful questions (in your own words, not as a checklist to rush):

  • Out of 100 similar situations, how often did the feared outcome actually happen?
  • What is the realistic worst case — and then what? Could you cope?
  • What have you done before when things were hard?

Worry postponement (for generalized worry)

If worry is free-floating rather than tied to one trigger, scheduling a short worry time later can reduce all-day rumination. Willow can help you set that up in chat.

What Willow will not do here

  • Exposure hierarchies for OCD, PTSD, panic disorder, or specific phobias without a clinician overseeing the plan. Willow can support motivation and debrief after exposure work you planned with a human therapist — not design new exposure protocols in chat.
  • Medication advice — dosing, starting, or stopping belongs with a prescriber.
  • Diagnosis — Willow can describe patterns; only a clinician can assess a disorder.

When to involve a clinician

Seek professional support if anxiety severely limits work, relationships, or sleep; if you have panic attacks you cannot manage; if trauma is central; or if you are using alcohol or other substances to cope. Willow complements care — it does not replace it.

Try it next

Use the button below to open chat on a concrete anxious situation, or read the cognitive model if the thought–feeling link is new to you.

From the guide

  • Anxiety often involves overestimating the likelihood of a bad outcome, overestimating how bad it would be, and underestimating one's ability to cope.

    — Anxiety-specific cognitive errors; Sokol & Fox (2019), The Comprehensive Clinician's Guide to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

From the guide

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