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Thinking pattern

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All-or-nothing thinking

Extreme thinking — always, never, complete failure — that hides nuance and middle ground.

Source: Sokol & Fox (2019), The Comprehensive Clinician's Guide to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

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The pattern

All-or-nothing thoughts use extremes:

  • "I always mess up."
  • "If it's not perfect, it's a total failure."

They feel convincing because emotion is intense — but reality is usually graded.

Skills that help

  • Continuum — Where is this on 0–100? What would 50 look like?
  • Evidence — Counterexamples to "always" or "never"
  • Thought record facts column

Common with

Low mood, stress, perfectionism — not a character flaw, a shortcut under load.

Try it next

Catch one "always" or "never" sentence you used this week — bring it to chat.

From the guide

  • Place the situation on a 0–100 scale — most things land in the middle.

    — Continuum technique; Sokol & Fox (2019), The Comprehensive Clinician's Guide to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

From the guide

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